"Information is out there, help is out there for the taking, for the asking, but some of us need to get out of our old ways. It's okay to change tradition, it's okay to make change for the better, and people need to come out and speak out. My mother is one of them, she is learning with me. I would like to see more people... go ahead and complain, it's okay to complain. I like to see that and have somebody listen to you and I would like to see more advocates out there."