"And then when I was in it, it was just rush, rush, rush. Right away, she's got to have the chemo, she can't have time to think. One doctor told me if I had any plans to do it now. The oncologist turned around and said you've got no time to waste. I want to start you immediately on the chemo, so it was just 1, 2, 3, wham! Everything was thrown at you."